Chris and
Tim
11/02/09 11:21 Filed in:
Living In
Fear
Chris moved to the U.S. from Canada
in 1994 to attend graduate school in
Hawaii. Following school, Chris moved to
Albany, New York and then to San Francisco,
where he currently lives. During this time,
he's lived in the U.S. on a variety of visa
types, including F-1 Student, TN, and H1-B
work visas.
Chris met his husband, Tim, in 2001, and
they were married in California in the
summer of 2008. Friends and family were
surprised to learn that Tim could not
sponsor Chris for permanent residency once
married, as would be the case if they were
an opposite-sex couple.
Chris' current visa expires in 2010, and
until recently, they were living under the
cloud of the knowledge that he would have
to leave the country at that time, with or
without Tim, into an uncertain future for
both of them. A few months ago, they
learned that Chris' employer of eight years
was finally going to sponsor him, and so he
was one of the lucky few. Without this
support, at the end of his visa, he would
have to leave the home, job, family and
life that he has created in America over
the past fifteen years. This is the reality
for most of whom are on non-immigrant visas
in this country. We only wish to be treated
equally to opposite-sex couples and have
the ability to be sponsored by our
husbands, wives, or life-partners. Visit
Marriage Equality USA Bi-national
Immigration (photo: personal; Tim and
Chris together since: June 2001)
Tags: USA, Canada