Tammy and Sally

08/07/08 15:12
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When Tammy met Sally online, they were both going through difficult divorces with their husbands. Tammy was in Texas and Sally in Northern England. They fell madly in love as they realized each was, for the other, the partner they had always dreamed of. At first, they attempted to let their relationship grow with constant visits to each country. As that came to a screeching halt, due to Sally's legal impossibility to continue coming to the US, they were faced with a dilemma. Tammy was able to obtain a work visa in the UK, but had to leave her two daughters and a good job behind in order to be with Sally. Read More [1] Through Thick & Thin, A documentary about the immigration struggle of gay and lesbian couples in America. Sebastian Cordoba, DIRECTOR/PRODUCER; Lavi Soloway, PRODUCER; Kim Fishman, PRODUCER. USA, 2007, 75 Minute Running Time. link: http://www.throughthickandthin.net/htmlsite/tamsal.htm (photo: Through Thick & Thin)

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Americans take it for granted that if they fall in love with a foreigner, they will be able to sponsor their partner for residency in the United States. But there is no such option for same-sex couples. It simply does not matter how long a couple has been together, how devoted they are to each other or even if they are legally married in Massachusetts, California (before Prop 8) or a country that allows it; if the partners are the same sex, their relationship is irrelevant in the American immigration system. A matter of fact, if our marriages become known to an immigration official, it would be evidence enough (to them) of a reason to want to stay permanently in the U.S. and would be an automatic ground to deny our spouses entry, or even a visa in the future.



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